Women Mentors Can Remind Us to Ask For What We’re Worth
March is Women’s History Month, and recently, I was reminded “mentoring” can take many forms. One is never too old to receive it or too young to give it.
My band, the Paula Boggs Band, is preparing to release its fifth studio album. Like most bands, we’ll have a show to celebrate the release. In our case, we will co-bill with another artist: a woman who, though a generation younger than me, has been in the music business longer.
When I shared with her the terms being offered by the venue, she asked why I wasn’t asking for a bigger cut. The venue was offering a 60/40 split despite our band having sold out the venue twice before. The other musician urged me to ask for more, informing me she too had sold out this venue and with this track record demanded and received a 70/30 split.
She also told me that “the worst that can happen is that they say no, nothing lost.” Emboldened by her suggestion that would never have occurred to me, I asked for more—and got it.
